Tag Archives: Personal Growth. Getting over it

Are You Better or Bitter?

        The end of a relationship is filled with anguish, disappointment, great sadness and often, much anger. After time has passed and the dust settles, Lana began to notice that she felt ‘‘better” and ready to “move on.” Lana reported the divorce was no longer an issue in her life. Good for her! I nodded […]

Dealing with the Peripheral Losses of our Decisions

Every change brings with it some peripheral loss. For example, in changing jobs there may be loss of established friendships, or in moving to a better house, there may be unaccounted for costs. Every change we make, even if it is a welcome change and by choice, produces peripheral loss. First time parents give up […]